Magnetic Messaging Trialled and Texted: A Thumbs on Review

Are your thumbs letting you down?

So…you meet a cute girl, make her laugh, maybe even kiss her and at the end of the night you walk away with her number.

But when you text her the next day she doesn’t reply. What went wrong?

Whether she’s not responding to your first text, going cold after you propose a meet up or suddenly vanishing after you’ve been texting for days, when your thumbs slip up, girls get repelled.

Magnetic Messaging is a guide that could not just stop you pushing girls away, but start pulling them in.

Sound interesting? Then keep reading to discover Magnetic Messaging trialled and texted in this thumbs on review.

Magnetic Messaging by Bobby Rio and Rob Judge

Magnetic Messaging teaches you the art of attractive communication on the phone.

The guide appealed to me because I heard it was chock full of tips and example texts I could mirror to instantly improve my phone game.

The eBook is a collaboration between Bobby Rio (dating coach) and Rob Judge whose experience comes from over 2 years of raw guinea pig tested phone game.

So, let’s dive in and break Magnetic Messaging down part by part…

Part 1 – The Principles of Phone Game

Bobby and Rob explain that phone game has made dating a three-part process: initial meeting, phone game and the date.

Phone game is where most guys go terribly wrong.

If you want more dates you simply have to improve it by understanding what attractive communication is and how to implement it.

They use the analogy of a pizza to break down the 3 ingredients to solid phone game – sparking emotion, making connections & handling logistics. Also note the wrong ingredients – asking questions, acting polite, making small talk, offering explanations etc.

Throughout the book Bobby & Rob urge you not to let your desire to just say what you want divert you off course.

Most guys make the mistake of not sparking emotions, being humourless and not flirtatious, so Magnetic Messaging gives you the tools to be so different and exciting that girls will stop everything else going on in their day to text you back.

Part 2: First Phase – You Want to Date Her

I was happy to see Bobby & Rob debunk the 3 day rule for waiting to get in contact since we discovered most girls prefer to be contacted within 2 days when Dating Metrics asked 100 women when they want a guy to first get in touch.

Bobby and Rob also suggest you should avoid sending more than 2 texts without proposing a meet up.

A little controversial, yes, since this rule is difficult to apply all the time, especially if you haven’t sparked enough emotion, but the vital thing it ingrains in you is that you should always look to set up a date ASAP. Nice stuff guys.

Oh and if she does reply with a “who is this” text, Magnetic Messaging reveals an ingenious way to salvage the situation in a fun and relaxed way.

You’ll be truly surprised by how soon they propose you go for the meet up.

I was also shocked to see what triggers them into handling logistics and can’t believe how many opportunities I’ve missed from not pulling the trigger sooner.

The Key-Lock Sequence

Later we’re introduced to “The Key-Lock Sequence”. This reveals the three text sequence to getting a date, plus how to avoid becoming her text buddy. If you have a habit of falling into the friend zone then you won’t want to miss this section. In a nutshell, to get a date you must:

  1. Spark emotions
  2. Make connections
  3. Handle logistics

These 3 ingredients are a running theme throughout the book.

What if she doesn’t respond to your texts? Magnetic Messaging tells you exactly how to salvage each unique situation.

Low Interest Girls

When dealing with low interest girls Bobby and Rob stand by remaining persistent and playful.

This does NOT mean needy, but adhering to the golden rule of not giving a sh*t if she doesn’t reply.

In fact, Rob shows you how you can change a girl’s feelings about the first date from disinterested to damn right excited about it.

He does this with a killer example of an edgy text that get girls to reply back after 2 weeks of no communication and makes dealing with unresponsive girls look like a walk in the park.

It’s the text-for-text examples that make the book’s teachings so easy to pick up, because at any point where you’re like what the f*ck, how the hell do I do that?!, it’s almost like Bobby and Rob have second guessed you and have an example to show you exactly how to put their teachings into practice.

Ever met a girl who was all over you when she met you but then never texted back after you got in touch to try and arrange a date?

Apparently a lot of girls see guys they have a brief encounter with in a club as hot man candy, and even if they exchange numbers, have little or no intention of seeing you again.

Even if this is the case, Bobby and Rob have a simple solution to make her want more from you.

They use a case study you can pretty much copy word for word to get a girl like this out on a date. This was my favourite tactic in the book which I wish I’d got my hands on sooner.

When it comes to overcoming the common excuses girls make not to see you, Bobby and Rob have got you covered. Excuses like: “I’m sick”, “I work too late”, “I’m tired” are easy to dismantle using their next level techniques.

Part 3: looks at the “you’re sort of dating her” phase.

When you’re sort of dating her Bobby and Rob suggest you handle things a little differently.

Apparently the shift should be towards making her feel more good about you with less focus on logistics and more on building a connection. You can talk more over text, phone and develop rapport.

A scary subject we’ve all faced is avoiding awkwardness when you meet for a first date. Magnetic Messaging reveals some useful tips to make sure you’re recognised when you meet her on the first date and it doesn’t end up like a job interview.

The “confirmation text” examples demonstrate how to spark her emotion so she’s comfortable and excited when she gets there.

Texting After Sex

When it comes to texting her after you’ve slept with her for the first time, they reveal the shocking truths of what guys do wrong and share some top tips on how to make her super comfortable and build trust after the first time you shag to make her feel you don’t just want her for sex.

Other chapters in this part include bantering and complimenting her the right way without sounding like an ass kisser, how to create anticipation with teasers that make her want to know you more and how to be funny without being a clown. They also touch lightly on what to say over the phone and how having a story to talk about removes awkwardness.

You’ll get to see exactly how to do this with a detailed case study that shows you how to hit all the right buttons.

Part 4: You’re Dating Her

In the 4th and final part of the book you’ll learn how to sprinkle on more humour, extend your bantering, and even how to get her sexually aroused with sexting.

Although there’s a lot of general relationship advice in this section, there are some real juicy parts, especially about how to begin sexting

Bobby and Rob teach you how to spot texting cues that’ll let you set a flirtatious context, how to spot something you can misinterpret to make the conversation more flirty and how to make inside jokes with typos.

You’ll realise the importance of differentiating yourself with a texting style with Rob Judge’s examples of how he puts a fingerprint on every text he sends, e.g. instead of “haha” or “lol” you say “hardy harharhar”.

Then comes the fun part:

How to Begin Sexting

I can’t give too much away here because I don’t want to spoil the fun, but Rob does an excellent job at teaching you how to initiate sexting organically and even explains how to get a girl to say yes to having a threesome.

Like girls sending you dirty pics? The right way to ask won’t cause offensive and create a natural move towards escalating further.

You can justify getting Magnetic Messaging for this goldmine advice alone.


  • My favourite thing about Magnetic Messaging is the texting case studies. The best way to learn anything is learning from example and the case studies make it easy to see exactly how to put the books’s teachings into practice
  • Almost every possible texting situation is covered, e.g. if a girl doesn’t reply, keeps making excuses or even hasn’t text you for months, Bobby and Rob have a solution
  • The book is very easy to read and often hilarious. Its teachings can be applied instantly at any stage of your relationship with a girl
  • Very good at making sure you don’t slip into bad habits and stick to the material by being witty, carefree and attractive
  • The bonus material: “99 Best Texts of All Time” is an awesome addition you can quickly refer to anytime you’re struggling for text ideas (you can even download it onto your phone)


  • Part 3 is relatively thin in content, with a lot of standard relationship advice, however, the product is best known for helping with the more important part of phone game: getting dates, so we can allow less content in the maintaining a relationship section.
  • Some parts of the book aren’t well organised. It doesn’t quite make sense why advice for making a good impression on the first date is later on in the book when you’re already seeing her
  • I would have liked to see more examples in the sexting chapter, however this book is mainly about arranging real face to face interactions, so this is water off a duck’s back.

Is Magnetic Messaging Value for Money?

For the wealth of tips and techniques this product gives you, I think Magnetic Messaging is well worth the reasonable price tag of $47. As well as the eBook, Bobby packs in a treasure trove of bonus material including “The 99 Best Texts of All Time” which is a PDF you can download to your phone. This is a lifesaver whenever you’re stuck for words.

Other bonus material includes video training you mustn’t miss on how to make a girl infatuated with you and a report on the 12 best conversation topics.


Magnetic Messaging is a product you’ll want to constantly dip into at every time you text a girl who’s important to you.

It will guide you through each and every step towards getting a date, maintaining a spicy relationship and even sexting.

I’ve bought quite a few eBooks in the past, all of which don’t get used nearly as much as this one for the simple reason that it’s practical and it works.

It’s pretty simple really. If your phone game sucks and you want material you can use immediately to get a date or rekindle a girl’s interest in you, Magnetic Messaging is a must have.

Does this sound like the right product for you?

Once you’ve given Magnetic Messaging a read make sure you put it into practice and don’t stray back into old habits! Also, don’t forget to email us your success stories! We’d love to hear from you :)

Online Dating

Insider Internet Dating – by Dave M.insider-internet-dating

If you’re new to the whole online dating process, don’t worry, you’re never too late to join the party. This program makes meeting women online easy so that you’ll get up to scratch in no time.

You will learn how to write a winning profile, compose the perfect emails, and get girls passing over their phone numbers and meeting you for dates with minimal effort.

The creator of the course Dave M. is a world renowned internet dating coach who cracked the code to online dating – clocking up almost 400 dates from sites such as OK Cupid, POF and

He reveals his secrets to internet dating success with 42 step-by-step tutorials, giving you the exact information you need (including copy and paste templates) to ensure you skyrocket your success attracting women online.

Online dating opens up a world of possibilities with beautiful women, so if you’re ready to embrace dating for the 21st Century this product will be your new best friend.

Check out Insider Internet Dating now and you can start writing your profile in minutes!

Text That Girl – by Race De Priest

The World’s Greatest Texter designed this online program to help you text your way to a date from ANY situation.text-that-girl

Whether she keeps dodging dates or she’s stopped texting back entirely, this program is focused on getting unresponsive girls texting back and on a date.

Race De Priest provides you with the exact texts you need to get an unresponsive girl excitedly texting you back, avoid falling into the friend-zone, and to get her out on a date as quickly as possible.

The system is all online and easily accessible on your phone so that you can copy and paste texts at the ready.

And if you’re looking to amp up your sexting skills, Race has a bonus product called “Text 2 Sex” that will help you nail down text-seduction mastery.

Check out Text That Girl here and get access to the exact texts you need to get her texting back and out on a date.

The Tao of Badass Exposed: A Full Disclosure Review

Badass Feature imageThe Tao of Badass is a famous step-by-step system for picking up girls that is proven to work for anyone. Regardless of age, looks or how inexperienced you are around women.

So if you’re suffering from approach anxiety, find it difficult to initiate conversation, and struggle to get women to come back home with you, then this might be the solution.

Read on as we expose The Tao of Badass bare and find out whether it’s the go-to product to learn how to pick up girls in this full frontal review.

The Tao of Badass Exposed

The Tao of Badass is rejection-proof system that teaches you a step-by-step method to approach, attract, seduce, and take girls back home with you.

I was drawn to learn more about The Tao of Badass after hearing about it’s creditable reputation – of it’s 100,000 + online users, 95.7% have found success with women.

I believe it’s success is largely down to The Tao of Badass philosophy:

‘What attracts women has nothing to do with money and good looks, rather, pre selection.’

Pre selection is the principle which dictates that women are more attracted to men who are seen to be attractive and wanted by lots of women.

And this pre selection thing is very much at the the heart of what The Tao of Badass is about. The system teaches you how to become ‘that guy’ who is wanted by lots of women.

And it does this by arming you with the knowledge of why you need to be like ‘that guy’ whilst giving you all the pick up skills you need to become ‘that guy’ who women are attracted to.

So how does The Tao of Badass go about transforming you into a guy who attracts all the women?

To answer this question I will discuss the 3 key parts to The Tao of Badass book:

  1. Become an attractive man
  2. The step-by-step system for picking up girls
  3. Reading body language and knowing when a girl likes you

Part 1: Become an attractive man

The Tao of Badass introduces you to the term ‘badass’ to create a clear picture of what makes the ideal ladies man.

With this you’ll learn exactly what women are attracted to so that you can model yourself on becoming ‘that guy’ who gets all the women.

In the first chapter you’ll learn the interesting science behind male and female gender roles, and how vital it is to embrace your manhood.

This helps to highlight the importance of fulfilling your male gender role because if you don’t, you risk falling into the ‘nice guy’ category, or worse, being friend-zoned.

If you’ve experienced being friend-zoned before, this chapter is great for understanding what you did wrong so that you can avoid the traps to never get friend-zoned again.

The next chapter is dedicated to boosting your confidence levels.

Women love men who are oozing with confidence. So Joshua teaches you some vital tips to become more confident around women.

He does this by revealing some brilliant self belief techniques to help raise your self esteem and ultimately become more attractive.

Part 2: The step-by-step system for picking up girls

The approach is the first step and also the scariest step to picking up a girl.

It was therefore good to see The Tao of Badass dedicate a whole chapter to help get your approach skills nailed.

Joshua focuses a lot of his attention on approach anxiety – the crippling fear preventing most guys from meeting the girl of their dreams.

He reveals some great techniques to re-wire your deep-rooted psychological behaviour and rid yourself of approach anxiety once and for all. It’s fascinating stuff.

You’ll learn how to use the correct body language to approach, and the best way to open a girl and not get rejected.

Once you know how to approach you’re ready to learn about the ‘map of interaction’ – The Tao of Badass’s step-by-step method for picking up girls.

The map of interaction is constructed of 4 phases:

  1. Attraction
  2. Rapport
  3. Seduction
  4. Relationship Balance


You’ll learn that ultimate success comes to those who are able to “see the matrix” which as Joshua puts it, is seeing which phase of the map of interaction you are in whilst you are in it.

Once you know what phase you are in, you’ll know how to successfully navigate your way to the next.

So how is each stage of the map of interaction discussed?


To build attraction Joshua explains how you need to utilize banter to make the conversation fun, playful and content free.

It was good to see tons of example banter lines are thrown in to compliment this how to advice.

You’ll also learn how important is is to demonstrate value to a girl and how you should NEVER try to sell yourself through bragging.

Loads of example qualifying questions are packed into the content to get her qualifying to you. These questions will help you instantly build attraction with a girl and get her chasing you!


In this part you’ll learn that through the cunning use of open-ended questions you can very quickly turn a boring conversation into a deep emotional roller coaster.

With this, you’ll discover a crafty technique to establish common interest AKA chemistry within the first few seconds of an interaction with a girl.

You’ll learn that building a strong level of rapport over the course of the interaction is vital if you ever want to see the girl again.

And once you start implementing Joshua’s rapport building techniques into your interactions, you’ll notice women won’t go cold when you text them the next day.


When it comes to picking up girls, this is the fun part! Joshua goes into great depth on this all important part to make sure you’re ready to go in for the kiss and not get rejected.

You gain a fascinating insight into the logical brain vs. the emotional brain theory and how women have what is called a ‘red zone’ enabling them to snap out of being seduced in a flash.

With that in mind, Joshua gives you some useful tips to avoid raising her red zone so that you can sexually escalate the seduction with zero chance of getting rejected.

Relationship Balance

Unlike any other pick up system, The Tao of Badass is unique in the way that it offers relationship advice.

If you’re looking to get a girlfriend or you’re someone who struggles to get any further than the dating zone, this section will be really useful to you.

You’ll discover the 4 major factors necessary to form a strong and successful relationship.

So if you’re victim of being cheated on, never had a girlfriend, or too often fall into the friend-zone, this section will give you all the solutions.

Part 3: Reading body language and knowing when a girl likes you

In this section you’ll learn the difference between positive and negative body language and how to effectively apply the right body language to the approach.

Joshua takes you through tons of different pick up scenarios to shows you the correct body language to adopt to every possible situation.

You’ll also get to learn about attraction cues so that you can develop a trained eye to spot when a girls into you.

This is vital stuff because the earlier you can spot a girl likes you, the quicker you can start escalating the seduction and getting sexual 😉

To wrap things up, you’ll get a fully detailed definition of the word that is heavily used in the book – ‘badass’.

The Badass

Joshua brakes down the word ‘badass’ into 25 key components so that you know exactly how to be ‘that guy’ who gets all the women he desires.

This is a great summary of everything you learn, and gets you totally fired up to hit the clubs and start putting your new skills to practice!

Heard enough and want to get started straight away?


  • This product is great for anyone starting out with pickup. The theory provides the perfect platform to kick-start your success with women. Learning ‘why you do it’ is essential for putting your faith in the new techniques you learn.
  • Value for money – upon purchasing you get immediate access to the members area which gives you a whole host of bonus material including instructional videos and live chat if you happen to have any burning questions. The material also caters for both visual and auditory learners so you can download the audiobook version if you detest reading.
  • Relationship advice is discussed in great detail. Whilst other dating products focus solely on pickup, The Tao of Badass covers the full spectrum.
  • I found the chapters on Tests and Reading Body Language the most interesting. The material goes into great depth whilst using practical examples to see how the theory is applied.


  • The content is pretty heavy going – 150 pages in total. However the AudioBook version is a great alternative if you’re not much of a reader.
  • Sometimes a greater number of practical examples are needed to support the theory. For example using banter to demonstrate high value. However this is where the Members Only Area comes into it’s own. When examples are needed, Joshua points you to the online Members Only Area to find practical examples of the theories discussed in the book.
  • Being largely theory based means this product is not suitable for the advanced.

What does The Tao of Badass system include?

When you purchase The Tao of Badass system you’ll get exclusive entry to the ‘Badass Elite Members Area’ which gives you instant access to the full Tao of Badass course.

For the purchase price of $67, you’re not just getting the Tao of Badass eBook, you get a whole host of bonus material to ensure you have everything you need to have success with women. Here is a breakdown of whats included:

The Tao of Badass eBook – The 150 page eBook is available as both a PDF Book and Audiobook download. It provides the groundbreaking step-by-step ‘attraction blueprint’ system with detailed instructions on how you can use the step-by-step method to successfully approach, attract and seduce women into bed.

Advanced Training Videos – 50 minutes of video content to help you better understand how to build deep rapport, demonstrate value, qualifying, and how to escalate things sexually.

The 5 week Body Language Mastery Course – 9 hours worth of webinars are packed into this 5 week intensive course. You’ll learn how to read body language like a pro so that you can pinpoint the exact time to escalate your seduction with a girl and not get rejected.

Subliminal Inner Confidence Audio Album – This includes 4 audio tracks to download to your iPod or phone to help you nail your self confidence with women.

Hacking Attraction Video Course – A personal development course dedicated to making you more attractive. Josh works at improving your inner you, and how you can easily become a more attractive man who gets all the girls.

Heard enough and want to get started right away?

Once you gain exclusive access to The Badass Elite Members Area you’ll find everything is available to download or stream online via the left sidebar:

Is The Tao of Badass value for money?

At $67 you might think The Tao of Badass is a little pricey. But when you consider the wealth of bonus material that is included, there is no doubt that The Tao of Badass is well worth the $67 price tag.

It gives you all the material you need to attract more women into your life. And I personally cannot think of any other pick up product that packs in so much bonus material for the money.

And if you’re a little hesitant about paying the $67 because you’re worried The Tao of Badass might not help you get a girlfriend or bed more women… don’t worry, it comes with a 60 day money back guarantee.

Wrapping it up

So does The Tao of Badass live up to the hype?

Yes it does. There is very good reason why The Tao of Badass has gained so much reputable success as the go-to product for picking up girls.

It lays the foundations so that you fully understand exactly what works with women, why it works, and how you can use the skills to have the success with women you always dreamed of.