Are your thumbs letting you down?
So…you meet a cute girl, make her laugh, maybe even kiss her and at the end of the night you walk away with her number.
But when you text her the next day she doesn’t reply. What went wrong?
Whether she’s not responding to your first text, going cold after you propose a meet up or suddenly vanishing after you’ve been texting for days, when your thumbs slip up, girls get repelled.
Magnetic Messaging is a guide that could not just stop you pushing girls away, but start pulling them in.
Sound interesting? Then keep reading to discover Magnetic Messaging trialled and texted in this thumbs on review.
Magnetic Messaging by Bobby Rio and Rob Judge
Magnetic Messaging teaches you the art of attractive communication on the phone.
The guide appealed to me because I heard it was chock full of tips and example texts I could mirror to instantly improve my phone game.
The eBook is a collaboration between Bobby Rio (dating coach) and Rob Judge whose experience comes from over 2 years of raw guinea pig tested phone game.
So, let’s dive in and break Magnetic Messaging down part by part…
Part 1 – The Principles of Phone Game
Bobby and Rob explain that phone game has made dating a three-part process: initial meeting, phone game and the date.
Phone game is where most guys go terribly wrong.
If you want more dates you simply have to improve it by understanding what attractive communication is and how to implement it.
They use the analogy of a pizza to break down the 3 ingredients to solid phone game – sparking emotion, making connections & handling logistics. Also note the wrong ingredients – asking questions, acting polite, making small talk, offering explanations etc.
Throughout the book Bobby & Rob urge you not to let your desire to just say what you want divert you off course.
Most guys make the mistake of not sparking emotions, being humourless and not flirtatious, so Magnetic Messaging gives you the tools to be so different and exciting that girls will stop everything else going on in their day to text you back.
Part 2: First Phase – You Want to Date Her
I was happy to see Bobby & Rob debunk the 3 day rule for waiting to get in contact since we discovered most girls prefer to be contacted within 2 days when Dating Metrics asked 100 women when they want a guy to first get in touch.
Bobby and Rob also suggest you should avoid sending more than 2 texts without proposing a meet up.
A little controversial, yes, since this rule is difficult to apply all the time, especially if you haven’t sparked enough emotion, but the vital thing it ingrains in you is that you should always look to set up a date ASAP. Nice stuff guys.
Oh and if she does reply with a “who is this” text, Magnetic Messaging reveals an ingenious way to salvage the situation in a fun and relaxed way.
You’ll be truly surprised by how soon they propose you go for the meet up.
I was also shocked to see what triggers them into handling logistics and can’t believe how many opportunities I’ve missed from not pulling the trigger sooner.
The Key-Lock Sequence
Later we’re introduced to “The Key-Lock Sequence”. This reveals the three text sequence to getting a date, plus how to avoid becoming her text buddy. If you have a habit of falling into the friend zone then you won’t want to miss this section. In a nutshell, to get a date you must:
- Spark emotions
- Make connections
- Handle logistics
These 3 ingredients are a running theme throughout the book.
What if she doesn’t respond to your texts? Magnetic Messaging tells you exactly how to salvage each unique situation.
Low Interest Girls
When dealing with low interest girls Bobby and Rob stand by remaining persistent and playful.
This does NOT mean needy, but adhering to the golden rule of not giving a sh*t if she doesn’t reply.
In fact, Rob shows you how you can change a girl’s feelings about the first date from disinterested to damn right excited about it.
He does this with a killer example of an edgy text that get girls to reply back after 2 weeks of no communication and makes dealing with unresponsive girls look like a walk in the park.
It’s the text-for-text examples that make the book’s teachings so easy to pick up, because at any point where you’re like what the f*ck, how the hell do I do that?!, it’s almost like Bobby and Rob have second guessed you and have an example to show you exactly how to put their teachings into practice.
Ever met a girl who was all over you when she met you but then never texted back after you got in touch to try and arrange a date?
Apparently a lot of girls see guys they have a brief encounter with in a club as hot man candy, and even if they exchange numbers, have little or no intention of seeing you again.
Even if this is the case, Bobby and Rob have a simple solution to make her want more from you.
They use a case study you can pretty much copy word for word to get a girl like this out on a date. This was my favourite tactic in the book which I wish I’d got my hands on sooner.
When it comes to overcoming the common excuses girls make not to see you, Bobby and Rob have got you covered. Excuses like: “I’m sick”, “I work too late”, “I’m tired” are easy to dismantle using their next level techniques.
Part 3: looks at the “you’re sort of dating her” phase.
When you’re sort of dating her Bobby and Rob suggest you handle things a little differently.
Apparently the shift should be towards making her feel more good about you with less focus on logistics and more on building a connection. You can talk more over text, phone and develop rapport.
A scary subject we’ve all faced is avoiding awkwardness when you meet for a first date. Magnetic Messaging reveals some useful tips to make sure you’re recognised when you meet her on the first date and it doesn’t end up like a job interview.
The “confirmation text” examples demonstrate how to spark her emotion so she’s comfortable and excited when she gets there.
Texting After Sex
When it comes to texting her after you’ve slept with her for the first time, they reveal the shocking truths of what guys do wrong and share some top tips on how to make her super comfortable and build trust after the first time you shag to make her feel you don’t just want her for sex.
Other chapters in this part include bantering and complimenting her the right way without sounding like an ass kisser, how to create anticipation with teasers that make her want to know you more and how to be funny without being a clown. They also touch lightly on what to say over the phone and how having a story to talk about removes awkwardness.
You’ll get to see exactly how to do this with a detailed case study that shows you how to hit all the right buttons.
Part 4: You’re Dating Her
In the 4th and final part of the book you’ll learn how to sprinkle on more humour, extend your bantering, and even how to get her sexually aroused with sexting.
Although there’s a lot of general relationship advice in this section, there are some real juicy parts, especially about how to begin sexting
Bobby and Rob teach you how to spot texting cues that’ll let you set a flirtatious context, how to spot something you can misinterpret to make the conversation more flirty and how to make inside jokes with typos.
You’ll realise the importance of differentiating yourself with a texting style with Rob Judge’s examples of how he puts a fingerprint on every text he sends, e.g. instead of “haha” or “lol” you say “hardy harharhar”.
Then comes the fun part:
How to Begin Sexting
I can’t give too much away here because I don’t want to spoil the fun, but Rob does an excellent job at teaching you how to initiate sexting organically and even explains how to get a girl to say yes to having a threesome.
Like girls sending you dirty pics? The right way to ask won’t cause offensive and create a natural move towards escalating further.
You can justify getting Magnetic Messaging for this goldmine advice alone.
- My favourite thing about Magnetic Messaging is the texting case studies. The best way to learn anything is learning from example and the case studies make it easy to see exactly how to put the books’s teachings into practice
- Almost every possible texting situation is covered, e.g. if a girl doesn’t reply, keeps making excuses or even hasn’t text you for months, Bobby and Rob have a solution
- The book is very easy to read and often hilarious. Its teachings can be applied instantly at any stage of your relationship with a girl
- Very good at making sure you don’t slip into bad habits and stick to the material by being witty, carefree and attractive
- The bonus material: “99 Best Texts of All Time” is an awesome addition you can quickly refer to anytime you’re struggling for text ideas (you can even download it onto your phone)
- Part 3 is relatively thin in content, with a lot of standard relationship advice, however, the product is best known for helping with the more important part of phone game: getting dates, so we can allow less content in the maintaining a relationship section.
- Some parts of the book aren’t well organised. It doesn’t quite make sense why advice for making a good impression on the first date is later on in the book when you’re already seeing her
- I would have liked to see more examples in the sexting chapter, however this book is mainly about arranging real face to face interactions, so this is water off a duck’s back.
Is Magnetic Messaging Value for Money?
For the wealth of tips and techniques this product gives you, I think Magnetic Messaging is well worth the reasonable price tag of $47. As well as the eBook, Bobby packs in a treasure trove of bonus material including “The 99 Best Texts of All Time” which is a PDF you can download to your phone. This is a lifesaver whenever you’re stuck for words.
Other bonus material includes video training you mustn’t miss on how to make a girl infatuated with you and a report on the 12 best conversation topics.
Magnetic Messaging is a product you’ll want to constantly dip into at every time you text a girl who’s important to you.
It will guide you through each and every step towards getting a date, maintaining a spicy relationship and even sexting.
I’ve bought quite a few eBooks in the past, all of which don’t get used nearly as much as this one for the simple reason that it’s practical and it works.
It’s pretty simple really. If your phone game sucks and you want material you can use immediately to get a date or rekindle a girl’s interest in you, Magnetic Messaging is a must have.
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